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Hi, I'm using this journal as an anonymous place to put down my thoughts. For Valentines Day this my boyfriend and girlfriend asked me to marry them and I said yes. I find it a little hard being a bi-sexual in a committed three-some in a world that won't even acknowledge gay marriage, let alone what I'm about to enter into.

You see, until things change I'm never going to able to be a legal wife to either of my spouses. In our minds, we're going to be married, but I'll never have all of the privalages that a wife gets. I can't get their certified mail or get that tax break, because they're already married. Legally they are man and wife. I came along shortly before their wedding and got into a relationship with then a little while after.

There's not a lot of people in my life that I can talk to about all the scary things I find out about on the internet (like the mother in a poly relationship that had her son taken away.) There's not all that many resources either. It seems like committed threesomes are the red-headed step child of the GBLTA world. So I'm kind of just looking for a place that I can gather resources, talk about my problem as I'm getting ready for my marriage ceremony, and just in general, talk about my fears and hopes.

So here I am. I bi-sexual girl, about to get married, and looking for someone to share all of the pitfalls that come along with that.

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